2.5 yrs

Finally on Monday(9th Nov) he has started his school. I took 3 leaves and stayed with him at his school. For me it was very touching moments...it was actually tough too to leave a child with somebody...even i got tears....

On 9th I took him for an hr, n his mam told most of the time he cried n even vomitted...n when he came back to me he hugged me tightly n started crying...he was telling to his mam 2 lines..mujhe mmy ke paas jana he ya mujhe jhulaa jhulna he...so after he came back to me i told jhule lene hein then he immediately forgot that he was crying n started playing....

On 10th I prepared him from home ki school mei maza ayega...i think usne apne aap ko smjaya bcoz when i entered reception he said so innocently -mmy nona nhi ro raha n just after a sec when he was about to enter classroom area he started crying loudly...i felt very bad n pity on him...but i knew once he got adjust he will definately njoy a lot...so maid took him to a classroom..he stayed there for 1 1/2 hr...in middle i went and checked him kabhi rota tha kabhi chup ho jata tha...that time i felt like crying..wanted to hug him but..has to be strong...so again when he came back mere gale lg ker roya but when i said bahar digger tanker then jhule toh ek dum chup ho gaya aur bola chalo jldi...

On 11th he attended for complete 3hrs...he was mentally ready so he cried but when i said i'll be waiting for u in reception toh rote rote bola aap neeche hi rehna aur bye bye kerne lgaa...i checked him in the middle that time he was doing some activities with his mam...so felt bit relaxed...when he came to me i treated with a big hug n saying wow n all...he had as usual rides n took me to his classroom...

On 12th he went for picnic massi n nani took him..he cried while going but hopefully played there

On 13th(today) they have celebrated children's day so went with Nehru's getup..i told him to say a poem mottu seth palang per late as in last it comes chacha nehru zindabad as he has to say some slogan but he didnt speak there...was telling me ki mam ne kaha but mene bol diya ki mei nhi bolunga...yesterday whole night it rained so my laddu very innocently said ki mmy bahar bohot jm ker barish ho rhi he toh school toh band hoga..we all laughed like anything ki c abhi do din hue n how come itne se ko bhane marne aa gaye...my shweet baby......i missed him a lot........

2.4 yrs

loves jumping--esp long jumps...more than 2 feet
now he has his own choices in food,clothes,games...cant compel him for anything.....
he is fond of juices,icecream(amphi in nona lang) and golgappa's...

On diwali he enjoyed a lot watching crackers..infact he fired lot of pistol bombs and also played with phuljhari...
he got cold cough bcoz of pollution on diwali..n i told him not to take juices,amphi anything toh daily he used to remind me ki thik hoker khayunga..otherwise bohot mn kre toh he sayd ki garam kerke amphi kha leta hun...bdmaash..

kl massi ne ph kerke bohot samjaya ki rest ker aur kuch juice nhi lena he toh end mei kehta he hello hello hello massi kuch bol rhi he kya..massi ki awaz nhi sun rhi....
main door khol ker bahar se latch lgaa leta he aur khub request kerne per kholta he......aur jo kuch milta he woh nichhe gira deta he...phir bolega ki mei ek min mein nichhe se le atta hu...
usko kisis ka der he toh woh guard ka he otherwise toh uski bdmashian khtm hi nhi hoti...


tomo 29 Oct is going to be first day in school(Brats n Cuties) I am excited as well as tensed as i knew isko time lgega waha adjust hone mei aur khub rone waala he...yeh soch ker mera dil beth jata he but have to b strong nhi toh usse nhi bhej paungi...
24 Oct ko uski school dress shoes sb leker aayi...i really wish sb achhe se ho jaye...

mene hmesha chaha tha ki mei apne child ko school chordu or leker ayu but i m helpless...feeling very bad....:((

Yesteday I took him to school as it was his first day..i was nervous as didnt know how he is going to react n i was sure ki he'll definately cry as he has never gone out alone...so we reached school around 10:30am n i already told him ki usse akele class mei jana hoga as i have some work aur kuch time baad i'll come back to pick him up...i gave toffees with him to distribute...

So when we reached he went with maid without saying anything but after putting step in his class he become cranky n started crying..n told his mam ki mujhe jhulee lene hein toh both of his mam took all children to front park. initially he was in his mam's arms but even then he was crying so she asked ki tumhe swing mei bethna he toh he said yes toh mam ne usse 20-25min khub jhulaya n he was starring to each child n was bit heran pareshan...bohot taras aa raha tha....then wapis they took all children to class...waha per again he started crying toh mam ne kaha toffees distribute kerne ko toh he did but cont sobbing..uske baad they have sent him back to me...aur mujhe dekhte hi zor se roona start ker diya...usse khub smjaya but intersting part is he was not sying ki we'll go home but he was saying ki mujhe jhulle lene hein...

mene usse smja ker wapis class mei leker gayi aur jbtk time finish nhi hua i was with him n tried to make him understnd ki sb mmy ko chord ker aaye hein aur yaha kitna mzaa aata he...his both mam were also ki abhi time lgega...i really pray ki woh jldi adjust ho jaye mujse uska roona nhi dekha jata...my sweet baby :)
then i took him to a market waha ride dilaya n after that we went by metro to big market where i bought for him a big remote car...he was very happy...

His fav songs+rhymes--2.4yrs

Now he has a list of songs which he loves to listen n watch:
1. ek chidiya anek chidiya.
2. title song of Beauty n the Beast

3. Hakuna Matata-Lion king
4. masterji ki aa gayi chithi
5. tan tana tan...kaminey

6. chore bazaari--love aajkal
7. chiki viki-blue
8.9.............

Unforgettable Incidents...

1) 2yrs- morning he said to massi ki want to have juice but as soon he saw me he said mmy massi is giving juice to me...
2) 2.2yrs: i asked him, Nona i'll get one car for u(electronic) so which one u want then immediately he showed me two fingers(1-1 from both hand)n said i want 2-2 corolla
3) 1.10yrs: knows most of car names, in single glimpse he used to tell name of the car...even used to give comments on them
4) 2.1yrs: while going out used to ask for golgappa,juice,icecream,dhokla etc
5) 1.11yrs: when anybody used to kiss him then his immediate reaction was mmy mujhe chat liya...n used to make faces

6) 2.6yrs: he has been told ki goode ko knee bolte hein n very next day when he was recalling abt knee kisse kehtein hein toh immediately elbow ko touch kerte hue bola isse bhi knee kehte hein...
7) His own words:
Cycle: kichle
ice cream: amphi
wala: lala
lifafe: flafa
phatk: phakt

8) 2.8yrs one day he told me- mma plz kl off mt jao na, i tried to make him undertsand but he was telling continously n bohot ptaate hue ki mmy plz kl off mt jao na...so finally i said achha kl mei nhi jaati but mei karungi kya nona toh school jayega toh promptly he replied ki aap jhadu poccha kerna aur kerke off chle jaana....
9) 2.9 yrs- he always go in his bell wali car...one day mamu ne kaha ki aaj mujse nanu ki car per scratch lg gaya toh immediately bola mamu meri gaadi per mt lgana...

10) 2.8 yrs- he daily goes to his favt mama mami place aur apni demand rkh ker aata ki kl aap halwa ya pakode bnaa ker rkhna mei ayunga khaane....

11) 2.9(9th April'10)- for the very first time he went all alone to his school by Tavera,thora draa hua sa chup sa tha but didnt cry at all....aaj meri jaan badi ho gayi...love him always...mujhe ander se ek derr sa lg raha hae sochker ki aaj meri jaan ne akele pehla step bahar rkha hae shayd usse zaada mei deri hue hun but usko ek strong brave independent bnana hae jiske liye yeh zaroori hae.....He has started driving bicycle with full pedal..
12) 2.10 - he has started swimming, skates & Taekwondo classes in his school.
13) 3yrs - we took him to maharaji n mmy told him ki woh bhagwanji hein n when we reached there he was having lunch toh mmy ne kaha woh aahar le rhe hein toh uska immediate ques tha bhagwanji toh dikhte nhi woh khana kese kha skte hein....

14) 3yrs - 28june night..we all were sitting n nona was taking pangae with me...mere mouth mei pain ho raha tha usper nona aur mere mouth ko touch kerke pareshan kerne lgaa...bola aaj mmy aap akele hi sona i said kyu toh bola aaj aapke mouth mei pain ho raha hae na isliye..mene usse kaha ki tu mmy ka khayal nhi rkhega toh usper sirji bole mmy ek kaam kro ek ladki le aoo kyunki ladki achhe se dhayaan rkhti hein boys nhi rkhte..v all got shocked..ki isne kaha suna...mene bola arre tu to dadaji hae toh bola dada nhi masterji hun...her baat ka jawab hota hae...bdmaash........

At 2 years

On 11 June he completed 2yrs. We arranged a lunch in an orphanage and in evening had a small get together of his frens-society children. We brought a cake of shape micky mouse and put magic canles on it. So every kid tried to blow off those canles so they njoyed like anything.

I get him registered to Brats n Cuties on 21June and will be sending in next 2-3 months.

He has started speaking in a better flow of sentences and now become a real chalo piece. He is used to drive his cycle on his own with full spead. Knows most of the car names.Knows all the gears of the car.

At this phase he become very much attached to me, dont let me go for 1sec. Used to sleep on my tummy and always keep his hand on his favt tiddy(mine).

He loves animals n birds....he did horse riding n even always insist to sit on buffalo,cow..loves to watch sparrow, crow,piegeon..
Now he is very particular abt his food,clothes..e'thing...he used to tell what he'll eat..when we go to Mall's he used to tell mma take this or this is not gud..even dont let me to wear which he dont like...

At 23rd month

Now he is 23 month old...now he has started speaking most of the words...didnt speak complete big sentences but in phrases he used to explain e'thing....best part are.ph uthate hi he used to say hello beta, after creating smthing in blocks he used to tell everybody WOW aur jub tk sub dekh ker wow na bol de he keeps on saying...aur koi strange cheez dekh ker promptly he used to say "haaye rabba"....

He is fond of vehicles...he has 2-3 books for transport in which he recognized all the vehicles....even on road he keeps telling the name of vehicles...today he knows more than 20 car names and recognize them in a spur of moment n we started telling this just few weeks back....now he tells so quickly n from a long distance ki even humme car ke paas ja ker chk kerna perdta he but he is always very sure n confident...

He started saying A-apple,B-ball,C-cat....in counting till 6...and used to do colouring n even draw lines by holding pen/pencil so nicely ki no one can imagine ki pen itne achhe se kese pkdaa..n we never taught him how to hold pen...
He has blocks for A-Z and 1-20..and we taught hardly for 2-3times n now he is expert in them...5-10min mei sb lgaa leta he...
He used to sing few rhymes n songs..word wise...
his favt videos are: Lakdi ki kathi, Moogli, Hakku na mattata, Romeo..
Now he dont like watching TV..ab khud band ker deta he...abhi koi interest nhi no cartoons,no music channel...but still recognize Katrina and Karina ;))-my chalu piece

He knows how to imitate...usse pucho mma kese cockroach se derti hee, rikshaw walla kese chlata he..lot more....bohot cutely btata he..

Now he knows and tells everybody names..his own,mma,papa n all...even smtimes he used to address a person by his/her name aur phir shrart bheri smile de deta he...
He drives pedal cycle on his own...stairs khud chard utar leta he..balcony per chair lgaa ker khdaa ho jata he...

his speech

he started expessing when he was 6months old...words he started when he crossed 1year..he started calling me mma,baiela name gave to massi,mamu,nanu,nna to nani,kaku to krazy n lot more...now he is 20 months old still he speaks words didnt start phrases but now he become tota keep saying words when we finishes any sentence....words bolker sb baatein smja deta he...kabhi-2 susu potty bhi btaa deta he...he is going to be a chatter box as even while sleeping he used to keep talking...he loves watching vehicles

esp truck,tempo and very cutely he used to say auto...uski baatein itni pyaari hein ki dont feel like repeatation...koi ldki dekhte hi boolega mma kudi...bohot bdmash he aese aese faces bnata he ki koi usko daant bhi na ske....

Memories-Activities

3 month old-He has balanced his neck

4.5 month old-started sitting

6 month old-started crawling and used to run in walker.

He used to crawl so fast that we couldnt even walk with him ,had to run to catch him.

1yr-started running

1.5yr-jumping from height of 1-1.5 foot,walk thru stairs on his own.Loves to jump.

loves to watch dhool n dance as soon he hears music..

never sits for a sec.....uske dimaag mei bus kuch na kuch chltaa rehta he...saara din shrartein sujti hein usko...

1st Mundan - 14 dec 2008

2nd mundan - 21 feb 2009

3rd mundan - 29 July 2009

but still(2.4yrs) uske hair bohot km hein :(

Stepped first time at school Brats n Cuties on 29th Oct 2009.

He has stopped using diapers on 22nd feb 2010...

He has stopped his milk bottles on 20March 2010..he is not feeling comfortable..not liking milk in glass but has to...

He started sitting on pot around 25 March2010, but not regularly(April)....has to say lot of stories to make him sit...

He has joined another school OPG World on 5th April'10.

On 9th April'10, he stepped out all alone to his school by Tavera....I was bit worried but now after 3-4days feeling quite OK..he has grown up..used to say mmy mei khud chla jayunga...my cute little jaan...mn toh kerta hae usse hmesha apni godh mei rkhu..most comfort zone mei but he has to face world n has to be brave n strong boy so i m quite happy he is quite understanding n mature boy...